‘Take that first step’- Story of an aspiring IPS officer

Girl Icon Anju comes from the village of Jamasindh, Dewas in Madhya Pradesh. Both her parents work as farmers on other’s land. Earnings in the family also come from rearing and selling goats during festivals, especially in festivals like Diwali. The cost per goat goes up to INR 4000-6000, depending on their weight. Anju belongs to a community that follows strict patriarchal norms. Here educating girls is looked down upon because they believe that education will turn them into rebels. Alcoholism and child marriage are common in her community and people have come to accept them as normal. She has three siblings and considers herself fortunate, for she has better exposure to education than many other kids in the same community.

Anju grew up as a shy kid, running away from conversations. In her words, ‘I remember how I used to walk away from conversations. Even when somebody, asked me a simple question, I’d just turn around and leave, I was very shy. Even when I applied for the program, I thought, I won’t be able to do it; I am anything but a leader.’ However, in her journey of rising as a Girl Icon, she always had her father’s support. He motivated her and encouraged her to take the first step towards gaining her confidence.

Anju came to know about the Girl Icon program from her sister and she expressed that she will be forever grateful as the program helped her in her path of gaining confidence and becoming a leader. She was very sceptical about joining the program which involved interaction and required leadership skills. However, since taking the leap of faith, she has been on the move, empowering many along the way.

In her words, ‘I was so scared when I was selected and was called for the first training in Indore. I’d sit in my room in most of our free time and wouldn’t interact with anyone. One of my fellow Girl Icons Priyanka reached out to me and said “Hi”, and I don’t remember looking back from that moment. I made lots of friends. I came back and formed my peer group and started our meetings and planning for social action projects.’

In her journey towards empowerment, she acquired skills, which she could not even imagine she had the potential for, before joining the program. She shares, ‘We learned so much through our training; we would sing and act and perform. Our thinking process was completely revitalized. I started planning things with my peer group. I’d come back from the training and would tell them everything. I, not only started expressing my ideas but also, started listening. I became a good listener too during the process.’

Being a Girl Icon, she has addressed several societal issues that hold women back from achieving their dreams. She wants to work for the rights of those who cannot stand up for themselves. Anju aspires to become an IPS officer and add goodness to society.

Source: By Swati Sradhanjali ( India Fellow )

More Stories

Creating New Pathways

Change the world like a Girl

Joining forces for the greater good

14-year-old fights back to stop child marriages 

“I was hesitant to talk to elders in my village as I was insecure about my experiences and societal status being good enough. The Girl Icon Program gave me the confidence to put forth my opinion with confidence”- Varsha Soni

“Education is the key to resolve the problems that hinder our well being”- Sakkubai

My Life, Mere Faisle Program: A bold and fearless girl leader

My Life, Mere Faisle Program: Monika

My Life, Mere Faisle Program: Raju

Breaking the Silence around menstruation

Breaking the cocoon of patriarchy and gendered attitudes, our courageous Girl Icon Roshni is on her fight to bring about change in society. Currently, a second-year student, pursuing her Bachelor of Science, this young rebel believes, ‘education is the only tool to empower everyone’. Check out her story!

Celebrating Krishna Janmashtami with Milaan School Teachers at Amberpur

The Process of Selecting Girl Icons


Meet a Milaan Teacher: Kanchan

A Space to Solve Our Queries: A teacher’s view

Balrampur Diaries: Part 1


Contextualizing the world for a rural school


Girls’ Day Out in Lucknow!


#CelebrateGirls: Infrastructure Barriers to Education


#CelebrateGirls: Financial Barriers to Education


#CelebrateGirls Voices: Anita

Social media & sharing icons powered by UltimatelySocial